i you had a choice between sline or the titanium package whitch should i get?

If you like the "blacked out" look then, hey, go for the Titanium package.

It's about $500 more than the S-Line package.

Most folks seem to either love it or hate it.

Personally, I hate it, but that's just me.

i forgot they group it k i really only like the rimes but i cant buy those seprate

Not sure who makes the reps, but here are some side to side comparisons for your review

<img src="http://www.fourtitude.com/gallery/generated//Audi/A4-S4-RS4%20(B5,%20B6%20and%20B7)/A4%20Sedan%20(B7)/S-line%20Titanium%20Package%20-%20USA/004__scaled_600.jpg">
<img src="http://www.fourtitude.com/gallery/generated//Audi/A4-S4-RS4%20(B5,%20B6%20and%20B7)/A4%20Sedan%20(B7)/S-line%20Titanium%20Package%20-%20USA/003__scaled_600.jpg">

Special UK Edition S-line
<img src="http://www.fourtitude.com/gallery/generated//Audi/A4-S4-RS4%20(B5,%20B6%20and%20B7)/A4%20Sedan%20(B7)/S-line%20Special%20Edition%20-%20UK/002__scaled_600.jpg">
<img src="http://www.fourtitude.com/gallery/generated//Audi/A4-S4-RS4%20(B5,%20B6%20and%20B7)/A4%20Sedan%20(B7)/S-line%20Special%20Edition%20-%20UK/005__scaled_600.jpg">

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