What is available in the way of a "normal"
key for the A4 -
Something like the valet key, but not valet?

what I mean is, can I buy a valet style key that will unlock everything? - Mat

go to the parts dept with a copy of your registration and VIN number and they can order you a "normal" key (with or without light, your choice). It's right there in the fiche. Took about 3 days because they have a central keycutter somewhere, cost approx. $45.

It will look like the valet key but the cut is slightly different. Cost is about $35 from Clair.