anyone feel that the stock non-sport suspension is too soft???i have a 98 2.8qm and over dips in the road i feel my car's suspension bounce too much...and i had a friend look at it while driving behind me and he said it looked like my car was 'all over the place'...now i'm not sure exactly wat that means..but if it looks and feels and i think, then i don't like it!!!hehehe...well, just wondering if this is the way it should be or is my car all messed up?