The after market stuff exempts Honda from warranty, just as it does for any car mfg.

So now you are down to a window switch, a/c, and the back latch after 91k. That's not horrible you know... Besides, you have to realize that "reliability" is based on all the cars out there averaged out, and not just a single person's experience such as yourself.

If you leave a Honda or Toyota engine and transmission stock it'll be very reliable.